To Pursue Married Women?

This is a big issue I'm facing early in my cheating goals.  Should I pursue married women?

I've heard it argued that you don't want to have an affair with a woman who is single because she has nothing to lose.  A married woman (or at least a woman in a serious relationship) probably fears losing her relationship as much as I do.  She'd be OK with the "only sex" part of an affair I wouldn't have to lie to her.  We'd be in the same boat.

There are obvious challenges to sleeping with a married woman.  The first is that she might just be the flirty type and have no actual interest.  Some women think since they're married guys will assume any flirting or sexual innuendos are innocent.  This is the problem with one of my next door neighbors.  She's got an amazing body and is hot as hell.  We flirt and make jokes with each other when no one's around but she's the buttoned up type and might just be doing this because she feels "safe."  I don't want to move (or have to think of an excuse to tell my wife as to why we're moving) so I hesitate to try anything with her for fear that it might backfire.

Another problem is she, and one of the other handful of married women I know who might want to sleep with me, have husbands and that doubles the number of people I have to fool.  This is especially true if these are people I have to see in social circumstances.

The obvious solution is to not sleep with anyone my wife knows, but my wife has some pretty hot friends.  I guess I'll have to tread lightly with her friends and I can be a little more bold with the ones she doesn't know.

Is this for Real?

Let me assure you, this is completely for real.  I will be cheating on my wife as much as possible and writing about it.

This is not a site of a guy writing fantasy porn.  This is my real life.  No, I won't post my picture on here or post anything specific enough to get caught.  

And if you're wondering I've already cheated "enough" to get my wife to divorce me if she ever catches me.  I spent a lovely evening drunk out of my mind making out with a former co-worker.  We rubbed, we licked and sucked but pants stayed on.  That's enough for her to leave me, but not enough for me.  

Why Do I Want to Cheat on My Wife?

Let's get this out of the way first.  I imagine this will be the most common question people will be asking me as they read this blog over the coming months/years.  Why?

Reason 1: Because I can.  I'm a guy and guys like sex.  Guys like sex with hot, young women who are not their wives.  This makes me an asshole, but I'm cool with that.  I'm young and a good looking man.  I have to get it while it's good.

Reason 2: 75lbs.  This is the approximate amount of weight my wife has gained since we got married.  The amount of sex has declined as her weight has increased.  Yuck.

Reason 3: It beats getting divorced.  I have kids, I have car payments and whatever else my wife has managed to spend money on.  I like the kids, I like the car and I don't want my life to turn to shit just because I want to be single.  Trust me, being single sucks.  You rarely get laid, you have to take women out on dates... that blows.  When women know I'm married they have to accept it's only about sex or just be disappointed.

Didn't I read somewhere that 50% of spouses cheat?  That means if I'm not cheating my wife will.

Those three reasons compounded quickly.  You probably won't find an single one of them acceptable as a reason to cheat.  Well, screw you.  It's my blog and not yours.

My Mission Statement

This is the the primary goal of this website: To document me cheating on my wife.

I hope you'll enjoy as I cheat on my wife and attempt not to get caught. I'll write about girls I'm trying to sleep with, girls I am sleeping with, my wife's suspicions (or lack thereof) and my general thoughts on cheating.

Subscribe to this sucker as it's going to be a hell of a fun read.